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It is a difficult energy to deal with. My best friend is going through a divorce with a Mars-Saturn conjunction Virgo male and all he ever did was criticize her and made her feel like she was not good enough, especially once he got comfortable in the realtionship. He picked at her flaws, especially her appearance, and I believe he had symptoms of narcissism in the relationship and I pointed this out to her and she laughed at how much he fit the mental health issue. I was so happy for her the day she realized he was verbally abusive and that she didn't deserve to be treated that way, but it took him first cheating on her for her to see it. Not all males with this influence are like this (my friend's husband also has Venus square the malefics) but a horary is more simplistic and will usually emphasize the major issues.